Anonymous asked:
100000% YES! to your ask about T and interviews. Even without bringing up their relationship cause that can be avoided via their PR just saying “No personal life questions” beforehand.
At this point I wouldn’t be surprised if Zane is his only interview since Hayley, when promoting PFA, even thanked him for how safe he made them feel. Or he just does printed ones.
I just wish more people understood his reasons to keep this distance. As much as we love him and even joke we miss his voice. LOL .
But Sometimes I think the fandom forgets that we don’t know him. How several people just ignore his mental health issues, how bad they might have been/ still are , how we don’t know his triggers. Getting to the point ppl complain he doesn’t stop to greet them ( him, who battled agoraphobia), say they miss the “old him”. (I Also miss the pre depression and anxiety me) and even comment on his looks …
tayley answered:
that last paragraph, go off! i think some folks forget how dark and scary those low points/triggers can be for someone, and fail to show true empathy because they themselves have never really experienced it before. never experienced the true darkness of how mental health struggles can spiral you downward fast. now imagine that being magnified 10x and you’re known all over the world. i can’t imagine the kind of stress taylor feels on a daily basis. the light jokes are harmless, but anything more than that is just unnecessary and insensitive.
